“No one could recall ever seeing or hearing
about
Gram being involved in a protest of any sort.”
Author Ben Fong Torres, who interviewed
scores of
people close to Gram Parsons while researching Hickory Wind
Timing is a curious thing. When I first
started this
series in May of 2008, the fact that Jim Morrison’s father had served
as the
commander of the ships involved in the Gulf of Tonkin ‘incident’ had
gone
virtually unreported for some four-and-a-half decades. Readers were
shocked –
shocked, I tell you! – when I began this series by trotting out that
revelation. Some even accused me of making it up, or of somehow
twisting the
facts.
But as fate would have it, as December of
2008
rolled around, the mainstream media was suddenly awash with reports of
the unusual
Morrison family connection. On December 8, for example, the Los
Angeles
Times carried a report on Admiral George Stephen Morrison,
described
therein as “a retired Navy rear admiral and the father of the late rock
icon
Jim Morrison.” According to the Times report, “Morrison had a
long
career that included serving as operations officer aboard the aircraft
carrier
Midway and commanding the fleet during the 1964 Gulf of Tonkin
incident,
which led to an escalation of American involvement in Vietnam.”
(emphasis
added)
The very next day, on December 9, the New
York
Times followed suit with a report by William Grimes: “George S.
Morrison, who
commanded the fleet during the Gulf of Tonkin incident that led to
an
escalation of the Vietnam War and whose son Jim was the lead singer of
the
Doors … Aboard the flagship carrier Bon Homme Richard, Mr. Morrison
commanded
American naval forces in the gulf when the destroyer Maddox engaged
three North
Vietnamese torpedo boats on Aug. 2, 1964. A skirmish and confused
reports of a
second engagement two days later led President Lyndon B. Johnson to
order
airstrikes against
Mr. Grimes has penned a rather charitable
account of
the
On December 7, the day before George
Morrison’s name
turned up in the LA Times’ obituaries, another key name from
the Laurel
Canyon saga appeared there as well: Elmer Valentine, co-owner of the
hottest
clubs on the Strip in the late 1960s and early 1970s – the
Whisky-A-Go-Go, the
Roxy, and the Rainbow. Valentine died of unspecified causes on
Some scribes, I suppose, would find it a bit
disconcerting to find that some of the characters in their
work-in-progress had
suddenly started dropping dead. After all, the cause of death in both
cases is
a bit fuzzy, and Morrison dropped just four days after Part 11 was
posted and
Valentine followed suit 6 days after Part 12 went up. But they were
both quite
elderly, of course, so maybe it was just their time to go.
Anyway, the real focus of this chapter is
singer/songwriter/guitarist/keyboardist Gram Parsons, and the Gram
Parsons
story, as it turns out, is essentially a microcosm of the
First of all, let’s begin with the obvious:
Gram
Parsons was far from being the biggest star to emerge from the
It is safe to say that Parsons does not have
nearly
the number of fans that, say, David Crosby or Frank Zappa have.
Compared to
contemporaries who died during the same era and at roughly the same age
–
artists like Jim Morrison, Janis Joplin and Jimi Hendrix – Parsons is
all but
unknown. But the fans that he does have tend to be particularly rabid
ones, and
if you happen to be one of them, you might want to skip this chapter.
And the
next, actually, because this is kind of a long story.
We begin back about, oh, a thousand years
ago, with
Ferdinand the Great, the first King of Castille on the
Reade’s offspring would ultimately spawn
Ingram
Cecil Connor, Jr., a well-to-do gent who settled in
Not to worry though – Cecil was never in
harm’s way,
having opted to forgo living in officer’s quarters on the military base
in
favor of staying at a luxurious, massive estate near Diamond Head owned
by
uber-wealthy heiress Barbara Hutton. Hutton, for those who don’t know,
was the
granddaughter of Frank Woolworth, the founder of the Woolworth’s
five-and-dime
store chain. She was also the daughter of Franklyn Laws Hutton, a
co-founder of
E.F. Hutton, one of the nation’s most prestigious brokerage firms until
it ran
afoul of the law for such crimes as check kiting, money laundering and
mail
fraud. Barbara was also the niece of Marjory Post Hutton, the daughter
of C.W. Post,
founder of what would become General Foods.
Like so many of the other characters who have
populated this story (including Gram Parsons), Barbara was traumatized
in
childhood by the alleged suicide of a parent. According to news
reports, it was
5-year-old Barbara who discovered her mother Edna’s lifeless body in
May of
1917. An empty bottle of strychnine was reportedly recovered by police
from a
nearby bathroom. There was no autopsy performed and no official inquest
was
ever conducted, as would be expected when an extremely wealthy person
dies
under questionable circumstances.
In 1930, just after the onset of the last
Great
Depression, Barbara was thrown a lavish debutante ball attended by
those at the
very top of the food chain, including members of the Astor and
Rockefeller
families. The next year, she inherited a fortune estimated to be worth
the
equivalent of $1 billion today. She was just nineteen at the time. Two
years
later, she received further inheritance that raised her net worth to an
estimated
$2-$2.5 billion (in today’s dollars). Much of the rest of the country
was
busily wallowing in abject poverty.
Ms Hutton lived a very troubled life, with
numerous
failed marriages and relationships. One of her many paramours was
Phillip van
Rensselaer, who later penned a book about her life which he entitled Million
Dollar Baby. Van Rensselaer, it will be recalled, was from the same
family
tree as
(I almost added “after that brief digression”
to the
preceding sentence, but then I remembered that, though I rarely read
commentary
on my work on the web, I did stumble across something the other day.
The review
was positive overall, though it did note that my website design was,
uhmm, I
think the word was “atrocious,” and that I had (this may not be an
exact quote)
“an unnatural fondness for the word ‘digress.’” I could, I suppose,
mount a
spirited defense against the charges, but the evidence appears to be
overwhelming. But here I really have digres ... let’s just get back to
our
story, shall we?)
As World War II drug on, Ingram Cecil Connor,
Jr.
worked his way up the chain of command to the rank of Major. In the
Pacific
theater of operations, he was a decorated hero and a squadron commander
who
flew numerous combat missions. After the war, he continued to serve in
the Air
Force at a base in
The Snively clan had first come to
Brought over with him to
Milton S. Hershey, of course, would go on to
found
the world’s largest producer of chocolate confections. Less well known
is that
Hershey failed miserably in his first several attempts to launch a
candy
company, in
The moral of this story, in case you missed
it, is
that without the Schnebele/Snavely/Snively family fortune, there never
would
have been any such thing as a Hershey bar or a town known as
As for Maria’s brother, Jacob Schnebele, he
died in
August of 1766 in
Avis Snively, who exchanged vows with Ingram
Cecil
Connor, Jr., was the daughter of Papa John. On
The Connor family home in
In September of 1957, when Gram was not yet
eleven,
he was sent off to attend the Bowles School, a combination prep school
and
military academy in Jacksonville, Florida. On his entry questionnaire,
he was
asked for his top three college choices; Gram chose
The following year, just before Christmas
1958,
Ingram Cecil “Coon Dog” Connor, Jr. was found sprawled across his bed
in the
family home, a bullet hole in his right temple. A .38 handgun was found
nearby.
There was no note to be found. Cecil’s brother Tom had visited just the
month
before, around Thanksgiving, and Coon Dog had told him that he’d never
been
happier and that life with Avis was wonderful. Curiously, his death was
initially ruled to be accidental.
Just ten months before Cecil’s death, Papa
John
Snively, Avis’ dad, had also died, and now she found herself with both
of the
men in her life gone. And yet, according to a family member, she never
appeared
to grieve and she displayed a “total lack of remorse” over anything she
may
have done to drive Coon Dog to allegedly commit suicide (by some
reports, she had
been having an affair).
Some six months after Cecil’s death, Avis,
Gram and
Little Avis boarded a train for a cross-country trip. They were gone
the entire
summer. Not long after returning, the family moved from the house that
Cecil
had died in and Avis soon met Robert Ellis Parsons, who owned a
business that
ostensibly specialized in leasing heavy construction equipment.
Parson’s
clients, curiously enough, happened to be in
It is unclear, by the way, where the “Ellis”
in
Parsons name comes from, so it would probably be irresponsible to
mention the
Ellis family that is an intermarried branch of the Bush family, but
with the
The Snively clan took an immediate dislike to
Parsons, who was described by one family member as a “greedy son of a
bitch.”
Nevertheless, Avis quickly married him and Bob Parsons quickly took
control of
her life. One of his first moves was to adopt Gram and Avis, even going
so far
as to have new birth certificates drawn up listing him as their
biological
father (how exactly does one go about doing that, by the way?) He also
promptly
impregnated Avis and convinced her to file a $1.5 million lawsuit
against her
brother, John, Jr., and her sister, Evalyn. The suit was settled out of
court,
with Avis receiving an unspecified number of citrus groves, but the
real
repercussions would be felt some fifteen years later with the
bankruptcy of
much of the family business in 1974.
In 1960, just a year after marrying, Bob and
Avis
added daughter Diane to the family. Also added was eighteen-year-old
babysitter
Bonnie, whom Bob immediately began an affair with, which apparently was
not a
very well-kept secret. What was a somewhat better kept secret is that,
in the
early 1960s, following the Cuban revolution, Robert Ellis Parsons
became
involved in the ‘Cuban cause,’ which is to say that he had very close
ties to
the leaders of an exile group that was being trained in Polk County,
Florida to
overthrow the Cuban government.
On one occasion (or at least one occasion
that is
acknowledged), he brought young Gram along to visit the group’s
training camp.
As luck would have it, a team from Life magazine happened to
also be
there that day and Gram – wouldn’t you know it? – was photographed at
the camp.
When Avis was informed of that development, she worked quickly to
insure that
those photos were never published. To this day, they have never
surfaced.
During that same era, Bob Parsons converted a
downtown warehouse that he owned into a teen nightclub to showcase the
talents
of his ‘son,’ Ingram “Gram” Parsons, who sang and played keyboards and
the
guitar. Circa 1963, Gram got a folk combo together that was known as
the
Shilos. During the summer of 1964, the summer before Gram’s senior year
of high
school, the band spent a month in
Despite his early preference for
At his high school graduation in June of
1965, Gram
was in his cap and gown and all set to proceed with the ceremonies when
he was
pulled aside and informed that his mother Avis had suddenly passed
away.
Seemingly unaffected, he chose to participate in the ceremonies. A
classmate
and friend has said that there was no sign that anything was troubling
Gram
that day as he went through the graduation rituals.
Avis had died in the hospital, reportedly of
alcohol
poisoning, right after Bob Parsons had smuggled her in a bottle of
scotch.
Gram’s mother was just forty-two at the time of her death. His father,
Coon
Dog, had only made it to the age of forty-one. Neither of their kids,
Gram or
Little Avis, would make it even that far.
Soon after his mother’s death, Gram received
a draft
notice from the Selective Service. Not to worry though – Bob quickly
got him a
4-F deferment and Gram happily went off to Harvard, enrolling in
September of
1965. By February of 1966, just five months later, Gram had had enough
of
Harvard and he withdrew. According to some sources, he never really
went to
Harvard at all, but rather spent all his time taking in the folk music
scene in
Gram arrived at Harvard a few years too late
to
catch the peak of the folk music scene in
The epicenter of the
The
In addition to the folk scene hitting its
peak in
the summer of 1962, something else newsworthy happened in
As the title of Kelly’s book implies, there
actually
was no such person as the Boston Strangler, but that didn’t
stop
authorities and the media from pinning all the murders on one Albert
DeSalvo,
far better known as the Boston Strangler. And so it was that just as
Folkie Richard Farina, by the way, was the
husband
of Mimi Baez, Joan’s younger sister. Farina had attended
Albert Baez also traveled abroad, to
Anyway, Farina married Mimi when he was
twenty-six
and she was just seventeen. The two of them, along with Joan, became
stars of
the
But perhaps I’ve gotten sidetracked here …
During Gram’s brief time at Harvard, he began
gathering together what would become the International Submarine Band.
When he
dropped out in early 1966, he and his new bandmates moved to the
In November/December 1966, nine months after
leaving
Harvard for
At age nineteen, Ross went with
Shortly after, in early 1967, Parsons
permanently
relocated to
Meanwhile, back home, Bob Parsons had married
Bonnie
shortly after the death of Avis, and the newlywed couple had then moved
with
Little Avis and Diane to
To
be continued …